20131201 & 20131208 Majlis Perkahwinan Affendy Azrai & Omi Sarica

Dalam masa 2 minggu ni aku attend wedding cousin aku

disebabkan kat klang je, so aku attend both.

tahniah to both.

semoga kekal bersatu hati

sampai bila bila

don't let others ruin your love story.

pakaian orang Sabah

belah pompuan

Dress in simple and sangat cantik for her

belah lelaki

songket ungu

Family kami

notes: sexy atau tidak. menutup aurat atau tidak. tu semua orang da belajar dari sekolah lagi. jangan semudah meludah menghukum. takde beza orang tak tutup aurat yang dah sah-sah kita tau hukumnya dengan orang sempurna menutup aurat tapi lisan tak terjaga. merobek hati orang juga ada point mungkin dicatit malaikat belah kiri kita. Wallahi, aku bukan menyokong. cuma aku minta, hentikan judgement. doa saja. mana kau tahu hari depan dia lebih berpahala dari kita. Jahat macam manapun, semua orang ada baik dia. 

AYAH

WEDDING -->> IWAN & WAWA

Feel happy for my beloved cousin from Segamat. Selamat Pengantin Baru. Semoga kekal kebahagian selamanya dunia akhirat. i pray the best for you cousin. Feel honored to be one of your bridesmaid. Your wife looks gojes as always. Hope to see u guys here soon. kate nak mai kl kan. aku bawak korang jenjalan cari makan dappp punyalah! heh... btw, enjoy the marriage life dude. 

pathetic for you...happiness for me

this is refering entry sebelum ni.

somehow my life tak sama macam orang lain. not just me. orang lain punya life pon tak sama macam life orang-orang lain. this is part of my life. which somehow Allah bless me with this experience. Macam few of my good friends tau. My first guy in my live who also called as Ayah, pass away when i'm 13 and my youngest brother baru 3 bulan. i gain this experience.

Baru 13 tahun den da kono menuntut masak memasak ngan abang den (beliau tukang masak dolu-dolu). Best part paling ingat siap da tak tau nak masak ape asik dok masak kicap, sambal suma tang simple bagai then wa kol omak den, kak milah kat opis "ibu, nak masak pe ni...ade sotong, bawang, blablabla...boring la masak same je tapi tak reti masak lain." and here comes the tutorial by phone. "ha...masak kari sotong...cani, siang sotong cam besa pastu blablabla..." and bermulalah lepastu pape pon tutorial bagai kol je omak den.

Being a single mom memang tak easy beb...jonoh la den nengok kak milah OT ja. dapek plak anak pemalas bobal cam den an. balik tebongkang dulu. agak-agak time omak den nak balik kojo tu alarm bunyik laju  lari memberabas bugas *senior den ajar ayat ni. joy part is...menjago adik-adik yang kocik kenot nih mizi baru darjah 1, mimi 4 taun n aieril 3 bulan...well, i do love kiddo. tapi den ni memang kengkadang kurang tahap kesabaran. Thank god i have my abang beside me. Great abang of mine. Abang Ijal. tapi dio garang wooo...garang macam bapak den. sebab? sekali dio joling yo den da gigil...haaa...penangannnn kegarangan beliau.

as said earlier, entry ni berkaitan dengan enrty sebelumni. pasal sorang budak bernama Hanna claim nak been paid for all the chores that she done padahal kemas pinggan mangkuk sendiri, bilik sendiri. berlainan dengan aku yang settlekan suma dulu. and bila aku sambung study menurun pada adik lelaki den...ulang adik lelaki...haha. he take over the responsibility tapi tak tau la banyak mano sobab adik-adik yang lain pon ado da masuk skolah and den da dok uitm. but dunno why tak terpikir plak den nak mintak gaji ek...haha...mau kono taji ngan omak den nak bergaji. 

Big Love

ok here it is... kalau ikut hati budak umur 13 tahun den time tuh opkos sifat pemberontakan muda remaja itu ado. look at the bright side bebeh...Allah bless me with those kiddo. adik-adik den yang dogil nak mampuih ni la nyawo den. yang den dok carot tu la kesayangan den. yang den dok sosah bilo marah la hati den. and i know...even now when i look at all happiness dari memember yang da get married and have kids, Allah let me have that feel when i'm 13. so even i can't feel those like having mine now, that experience i would like to call as joy, bless and love. 

u call it pathetic friend, if u were in that moment maybe. but not me. we have way too different life, family and love. we've been raised differently. our thought might differ from others. and i rather call them...those kiddos yang dah membesar and in fact give me niece as BIG LOVE of mine. 

Angry father shoots daughter's laptop with .45 pistol after she complains about chores

'This one's from your momma!': Angry father shoots daughter's laptop with .45 pistol after she complains about chores

An angry father has taught his disgruntled teenage daughter a very public lesson in respecting one’s elders by shooting her laptop on camera and then publishing the video on her Facebook page.

Tommy Jordan, of Albemarle, North Carolina, made the video after his 15-year-old daughter Hannah had apparently written a Facebook post complaining about all of the chores she has to do at home.

She was also moaning about how difficult her parents made her life. But when IT worker Mr Jordan found the post he decided grounding her would not be punishment enough and made the video.

‘That right there is your laptop’, he says in a YouTube video, pointing a camera at a computer lying in a patch of dirt on the ground. ‘This right here is my .45,’ he says, moving a pistol into the frame.

He cocks the weapon and shoots nine rounds into the laptop. The video entitled ‘Facebook Parenting: For the Troubled Teen’ is dedicated to his rebellious daughter.

It’s also aimed at ‘all her friends on Facebook who thought that her little rebellious post was cute, and for all you parents out there who think your, you know, kids don’t post bad things on Facebook’.

He begins by reading out his daughter’s post from a computer print-out, explaining ‘since you want to hide it from everyone, I’m going to share it with everybody’.

Mr Jordan mocks his daughter for thinking her parents would not be able to see the post because of her Facebook privacy settings, ignoring the fact that he works in IT for a living.

'That right there is your laptop. This right here is my .45'

Tommy Jordan

In the post, Hannah says she should be paid for the chores she does around the home and attacks her parents for overworking her.

Mr Jordan laughs at this suggestion, pointing out what an easy life she gets in comparison to what he had to endure growing up.She moans about waking up at 5am and go to bed at 10pm.

Then after about seven minutes addressing the camera to berate Hannah, he stands up and blows holes through the laptop.

He rounds off by saying: 'Oh yeah and after that comment you made about your mom, your mom told me to be sure I put one in there for her. So…that one's from her.'

BEST LINES FROM TOMMY JORDAN

• 'Pay you for the chores... seriously? Pay you for chores that you're supposed to do around the house?'
• 'You come home from school and you have a list of chores that are on the wall because you can't remember them if you don't'
• 'Your responsibilities include waking up on time and getting on the bus. That's the end of your responsibilities each day'
• 'If you have any laundry of your own, do it. And if your bed is unmade, do it. You don't have to do my laundry, you don't have to make my bed, you don't have to make the guest bed'
• 'Are you out of your mind? You are 15, going on 16 years old. You want things for your laptop... you want a new iPod - but you won't get off your lazy ass to even look for a job'

'Maybe a few kids can take something away from this,’ Mr Jordan writes in the video description.

‘If you’re so disrespectful to your parents and yourself as to post this kind of thing on Facebook, you’re deserving of some tough love. Today, my daughter is getting a dose of tough love.’

He said he found her hidden Facebook post while upgrading her computer. He completes his lesson by saying: ‘You can have a new laptop when you buy a new laptop and when you pay me back the $130 for the software I spent on yours.

‘I hope you’ve enjoyed your little fiasco on Facebook. I hope it was worth all this.' The video has been watched around 1.5million times since it was posted just two days ago.

Mr Jordan has since written on Facebook that the attention has helped him and his daughter 'deal with it' and insisted Hannah is fine, saying they both laughed about the video going viral.

But he admitted: 'I’ll agree that wasn’t a good example of me as a father. I had been reading that post again and again for about an hour, sometimes in tears, other times so mad my hands were shaking.

'I was trying very hard to be civil in my message,' Mr Jordan said, reported Fox News. 'I slipped in that and said a word I shouldn’t have. I deserve a little backlash for that, no doubt.'

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2099280/Dad-shoots-daughters-laptop-Facebook-parenting-video.html#ixzz2WRFo16R1
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WHAT DID HANNAH WRITE IN HER ORIGINAL POST? THE FULL TRANSCRIPT

To my parents,

I'm not your damn slave. It's not my responsibility to clean up your s**t. We have a cleaning lady for a reason. Her name is Linda, not Hannah. 

If you want coffee, get off your ass and get it yourself. If you want a garden, shovel the fertiliser yourself, don't sit back on your ass and watch me do it. If you walk in the house and get mud all over the floor that I just cleaned, be my guest, but clean it up after you are done getting s**t everywhere. 

I'm tired of picking up after you. You tell me at least once a day that I need to get a job. You could just pay me for all the s**t that I do around the house. Every day when I get home from school, I have to do dishes, clean the counter tops, all the floors, make all the beds, do the laundry and get the trash. I'm not even going to mention all the work I do around your clinic. 

And if I don't do all that every day, I get grounded. Do you know how hard it is to keep up with chores and schoolwork? It's freaking crazy. 

I go to sleep at 10 o'clock every night because I am too tired to stay up any longer and do anything else. I have to get up at five in the morning, to get ready for school. On the weekends, I have to sleep with my door locked so my little brother won't come get me up at six. 

I'm tired of this bulls**t. Next time I have to pour a cup of coffee, I'm going to flip s**t. I have no idea how I have a life. I'm going to hate to see the day when you get too old to wipe your ass and you call me, asking for help. I won't be there. 

Signed,
Your Pissed Kid,
Hannah

*aku ada kisah sama dengan kisah ini. next entry ya... :)

ADMITTED

My sister admitted. gara-gara keje terlebih makan terkurang rehat juga kurang. 

heyyyy...sayang diri ke tak ni? hoh.

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